What if you were meant to design your life — not merely survive it?

Your career should be part of your life, not the price you pay to have one.

Career by Default book cover

Career by Default

The Hidden Cost of Accidental Leadership

See Potential. Be the One.

From default to design · 11.11.26

What if the life you’ve worked so hard to build isn’t the life you ever intended to live?

Start with why

Why. How. What.

Why

Reclaim your humanity.

Because no title, promotion, paycheck, or professional achievement should require sacrificing your identity, relationships, peace, or joy.

How

Change the way you see leadership.

Examine inherited beliefs, challenge outdated practices, and embrace accountability, care, and commitment.

What

Career by Default.

A provocative, deeply human examination of accidental leadership that helps readers recognize patterns and make more intentional choices.

Keep living by default.
Or start living by design.

The Experience

From the front line to the boardroom.

33%

Pay It Forward

of the book’s profits pay it forward to Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City.

Two strangers once gave a little boy a quarter — and a reason to believe he mattered. This is how I pass that on.

Pay It Forward

Someone saw something in me.

Now it’s my turn.

33% of the profits from Career by Default go to Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City — to defend the potential of kids who are still waiting for someone to see them.

Lovell as a young boy in a studio portrait, Washington, D.C.
Lovell · Washington, D.C.

Washington, D.C. → Salt Lake City · Late 1970s

It started with a quarter.

Within about a year, a little boy named Lovell moved from Washington, D.C., to St. Louis to Salt Lake City. His parents were seventeen and eighteen — still discovering themselves while navigating circumstances they weren’t equipped to manage. Poverty, instability, and parents struggling with addiction were part of everyday life.

That little boy was searching for two things: something to eat, and somewhere to belong.

One day, outside a Smith’s grocery store near 900 South and 900 East, he asked an older couple if he could carry their groceries for twenty-five cents. Their names were Joe and Sarah. They could barely pronounce his name. They didn’t have a car. But they said yes.

At their apartment, Joe asked if he’d ever played foosball. Lovell said yes. He had absolutely no idea how to play — when you’re a little boy desperately trying to belong, your imagination sometimes gets a little ahead of your résumé. Joe didn’t embarrass him. He just invited him to play.

For a little while, that boy wasn’t thinking about poverty, or his parents, or the instability around him. He was simply a kid, enjoying the company of two adults who had no obligation to care about him.

They thought they were giving a little boy twenty-five cents. What they actually gave him was dignity, belonging, and a reason to believe he mattered.

Not giving back.
Paying it forward.

Joe and Sarah never asked for anything in return. Frank never asked me to repay him. You can’t give back to people like that. You can only do for someone else what they did for you — and look ahead to a kid who hasn’t met their Joe and Sarah yet.

What Joe and Sarah began through kindness

others continued through mentorship.

At 13

Potential without direction.

I forged my birth certificate so I could work at McDonald’s. By fifteen, I’d been expelled from three schools. Rebellious, ambitious, resourceful — and admittedly a considerable pain in the posterior. But not without potential.

At Wendy’s

Frank saw something worth developing.

I asked my manager, Frank Schiwal, for a raise. He told me I was great at operations but not at managing people — and handed me The One Minute Manager. Leadership, I learned, is creating the conditions for other people to succeed.

In 2023

“Defending My Potential.”

Asked to record a short video for the BBBS board, I told the story of Joe and Sarah. I ended by asking the board to defend the potential of the little boy named Lovell — who was still part of me. I joined the board that year.

Joe and Sarah saw a child worth spending time with. Frank saw a young employee worth developing. Neither was obligated to invest in me. Both chose to. And I’ve learned that mentorship isn’t defined by how long someone is in your life — it’s defined by the depth of their impact.

“Nearly fifty years ago, two strangers gave a little boy twenty-five cents and a reason to believe he mattered. I’ve spent much of my adult life trying to repay a debt they never asked me to repay.”

Lovell “Lovie” Holloway · Husband, father of five, mentor, friend

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City

Paying it forward is a family value.

I’ve served on the Board of Directors of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City since 2023. A year earlier, my daughter Bella and I took part in the Most Wanted campaign together — she was the youngest nominee — and we raised more than $30,000 for Kansas City youth. Bella is now a student at the University of Missouri, and I couldn’t be prouder. I wanted her to see that serving others isn’t something we do when life gets comfortable. It’s a responsibility, because our own lives were shaped by the kindness of others. That’s how paying it forward becomes generational.

Since 2023

Serving on the BBBS KC
Board of Directors

$30K+

Raised at the 2022
Most Wanted Auction

33%

Of Career by Default’s
profits, paid forward

Lovie and his daughter Bella holding their awards at the 2022 BBBS Most Wanted Auction
Lovie and Bella at the 2022 Most Wanted Auction
Lovie and Bella with K.C. Wolf at the 2022 BBBS Most Wanted Auction
Backstage with K.C. Wolf, Most Wanted 2022
Lovie and his daughter Bella in Kansas City shirts
Lovie and Bella
Lovie and Bella at a Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City event
At a Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City event

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City exists to clear the path to a child’s biggest possible future. They match young people with caring adult mentors — the kind of person who sees something in a kid before that kid can see it in themselves.

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Endorsements

Endorsements

Six leaders. Six perspectives. One shared conviction — this book changes how you lead.

Kelsey Bratton

Kelsey Bratton

Salesforce Business Analyst · Direct Report to Lovell

★★★★★
Endorsement

“He pieces everyone's strengths and weaknesses together like a puzzle — the perfect balance of collaboration and culture.”

Working directly for Lovell was very inspiring!

He brought out the hidden potential not just in myself, but in everyone on the team. He has a way of challenging you to be your best, and his secret method of encouragement to get you there is: he believes in you.

He really, sincerely believes in everyone on his team. He pieces everyone's strengths and weaknesses together like a puzzle to form the perfect balance of collaboration and positive culture. In turn, everyone has an important role in the process and is made to feel as such. This creates a new mindset on how to be more productive, but more importantly to be encouraged to do so.

I cannot express enough how fortunate I am to have been able to be a part of that, but most importantly, to experience first-hand such a unique and productive management style.

Bob Bennett

Bob Bennett

Alderman, Parkville Missouri Ward 2 · Author: Changing the World, One City at a Time · Civic Technologist

Endorsement
“

This book is the start of something new — not just a milestone in the business leadership canon.

This book might change your life. Or it may not.

If you simply read it and put it back on the shelf, you will learn some new turns of phrase and will appear more emotionally intelligent at your next staff meeting or Zoom call. But if you read a chapter a day and take the time to reflect on your journey each day, you'll see yourself differently. If you take the time to share stories based on this book's themes with friends, colleagues, teammates or folks who report to you, you'll build a better team. If you read it a second time — a bit more quickly all the way through — and take the time to reflect on different instances in your life as compared to the first read, you'll be on "All Fucks Given Boulevard" en route to a more rewarding career. I'm willing to bet you'll also enjoy time with your friends and family more completely and live in the moment as you journey forward.

I've been fortunate to know Lovell for a dozen years now, and, looking back, I can recall times when I heard elements of these thoughts expressed while grilling burgers for the community party, sitting on the deck of one of our porches or hanging out backstage at a concert venue. I can also recall how both of us, at different times, lived through default career experiences he captured eloquently in the pages that follow here. Career by Default casts no blame on how leaders got to where they are; instead, it gives the reader a lens through which she can reflect and learn a bit about how they got there. A feature of the book many folks will take away, especially those who "burn through the book so they can talk about what they read in a LinkedIn post or in a staff meeting," are key insights about how generations engage in the workplace. Lovell's leadership style and experiences working with people in all generations currently active in the workforce is wisdom you can apply immediately. These insights provide context to some of the mannerisms or behaviors that those of us in Gen X and the Boomer generation find mystifying. For Millennial and Gen Z leaders, these insights will explain why their leaders act the way they sometimes do and provide you language you can use to translate your needs into shared goals and policies that will get our organizations where they need to go.

Career by Default is the start of something new, not just a milestone book in the business leadership canon. This book is the beginning of a conversation and a transformation in the corporate culture of teams that embrace its lessons. Like works that Lovell references — The One Minute Manager, Who Moved My Cheese, Good to Great — this book will drive change. While he does not reference Unreasonable Hospitality, I see this work as complementary to Will Guidara's 2022 landmark leadership book. The fact that both Will and Lovell worked in the pressure cooker environment that is the service industry probably informs their shared focus on corporate cultures that fuse true collaboration and joy. In the name of true collaboration, I encourage readers to engage with Lovell after they read the book and share their insights. Let him know which insights help. Talk about points that didn't hit like you think he intended. As a wise man once said, this feedback is "where high expectations meet high engagement" and will "unlock our best."

“What we often perceive as 'people problems' are, in fact, 'design problems.'”

Endorsement
Cherryh Cansler

Cherryh Cansler

Publisher, FastCasual · VP of Events, Networld Media Group · Master's in Journalism

In the world of business, we often measure success by what we can see on a balance sheet — revenue growth, market share, profit margins. We build strategies around abstract concepts and data points, often forgetting that at the core of every thriving enterprise, there are people. I have spent my career observing and reporting on the hospitality and restaurant industries, and I can tell you from countless conversations and conferences that this is a truth too many leaders have forgotten.

I first met Lovell "Lovie" Holloway during my time as editor and publisher of FastCasual.com, a leading media brand for the restaurant industry. I was immediately struck by his singular vision and his ability to command a room not with charisma alone, but with a depth of experience and a genuine passion for the frontline workforce. His perspective is desperately needed.

What Lovie understood, and what so many in the C-suite fail to grasp, is the silent epidemic plaguing modern businesses: the Career By Default. It's the story of the barista who is slinging drinks to pay her college tuition, the warehouse worker who is nothing more than a number but must provide for his family, or the retail manager who cannot afford to retire. These are the forgotten workforces — the hourly, frontline and gig workers who are the backbone of our economy.

In his book, Lovell explores this cycle. He doesn't just identify the problem; he deconstructs it, revealing how fear-based leadership and superficial culture fixes create environments where people don't just fail to thrive — they actively disengage.

This isn't a book of quick fixes or feel-good platitudes. It is a bold, uncompromising manifesto. The power of this book lies in its fundamental argument: what we often perceive as people problems are, in fact, design problems. It's not that your employees are unmotivated or entitled; it's that your systems are designed to demoralize them.

His own journey, culminating in leading the massive $1.5 billion concessions and logistics program at the new Kansas City International Airport, is a masterclass in this philosophy. He didn't just manage a project; he reimagined its very foundation, proving that when you fix your systems, you unlock people's potential.

Read this book, and you will not only understand the problem — you will have the tools to fix it. Lovell has done the hard work of creating the blueprint. Now, it is up to us to build the future of work, one intentional design at a time.

“Consider this book your push off the ledge — the crash landing is where the growth happens.”

The only true failure is never trying… or just standing at the edge forever, overthinking it.

Lovell had no problem giving me a shove off that ledge. Repeatedly. But the best part was — he never just pushed me and walked away. He was always right there after, helping me laugh at the crash landing and showing me the lesson in it.

Our Leadership book club was legendary. We got to learn the big leadership lessons without always having to touch the stove ourselves. Nine times out of ten, I walked away with more perspective than I thought I wanted… but exactly what I needed.

One of the biggest things I learned: we've got to stop leading people the way we were led. That old suck it up and be grateful style is outdated. Real leadership is about figuring out what actually motivates our teams, holding ourselves accountable, and taking the time to really know our people — not just their names, but who they are, what they care about, and what ideas they bring.

So consider this book your push off the ledge… just remember, the crash landing is where the growth happens.

Kim Condon

Kim Condon

Guest Experience Manager · Worked with Lovell 2 years, known him 6

Endorsement

100M+

Americans

30%

of workforce

1 Book

changes everything

“More than 100 million Americans — 30% of the US workforce — are just getting by.”

More than 100 million Americans — 30% of the US workforce — are just getting by. In kitchens, warehouses, loading docks, retail outlets, gig platforms, and construction sites, one-third of the US population woke up today and went to a job that was never meant to be permanent.

Careers by default are characterized by constant churn. These jobs weren't designed to provide any sense of belonging, wellness, autonomy, or purpose. If you close your eyes, you can hear the refrain: You need to ship more product! Move the customers through the line faster!

If you have watched an NFL game at the Jacksonville Jaguars stadium, eaten at Auntie Anne's, Cinnabon, Moe's Southwest Grill, Wendy's, or Culver's, or flown through Minneapolis-St. Paul or Kansas City International Airport — Lovell was there, leading the people who made your experience possible.

Careers by Default challenges leaders to accept that employee disengagement is the direct result of how workers have been hired, trained, and treated — and that leaders can break this cycle today.

The underdogs. The overlooked. The overwhelmed. Your hourly employees affect your business and your future. Decide to be the leader your people need.

Matt Reynolds

Matt Reynolds

Brand Partner

Endorsement
Heather Versfeld

Heather Versfeld

Co-Owner, Prima Facie Bistro & Market

Endorsement

“Excellence does not come from paychecks alone — it comes from what you build into the DNA of your team.”

I've spent my life working in service. I started in fast food at the age of 14, moved into 5-star catering, then became a private flight attendant, and today my husband Leon and I are the proud owners of Prima Facie Bistro and Market.

That's why Career by Default resonated so deeply with me. Much like Who Moved My Cheese helped us embrace change, Lovell takes us further — reminding us that leadership is not about control, but about culture, clarity, and care.

I especially love how he reframes the first 90 days. Too many leaders treat it like a test. Lovell shows us it should be the foundation — when trust, expectations, and culture are cemented.

This is a quick read, but don't let that fool you. The lessons here are profound, practical, and necessary for anyone ready to lead differently. If you're ready, this book will absolutely move your cheese.

In Their Words

See Potential. Be the One.

The endorsements speak to the book. These speak to the leader, in the words of the people on the other side of it.

From the people I led

Typed letters, handed to me on my way out the door. Names withheld by design. Their words, their privacy.

Thank you for seeing something in me when you didn't need to.

Former frontline team member

Read the full letter

Lovell,

First off I just want to thank you for seeing something in me when you didn't need to. I was tired and burned out and crabby back at [my old store]. Instead of just letting me go you saw potential in me and kept me with the company and I thank you immensely for that. I wouldn't be sitting here typing this right now if it weren't for you, well I mean I really wouldn't be typing this if you weren't quitting but that's beside the point. Since I've started with this company I've seen a lot of things and had a lot of bosses. Most of them didn't really see us as anything other than numbers and a body to fill a space on the line and it was disheartening. You've never once made me feel that way. You always saw or heard what we needed and helped come up with solutions for supporting us. You never let us down or left us hanging even if that meant coming and bussing tables or cooking and that's something I've never really had in leadership most of my life.

You came in at a very rough time for this company in my opinion and with that being said I think you did a spectacular job. A lot was thrown at you between some special people and everything that comes along with running a business in a pandemic. You never gave up on any of us and I can't thank you enough for that. You've given all of us so much wisdom and insight in the time you've been here and that's something that's helped many of us grow and change and I'll miss that.

Along with everything I've said the amount of resources you've given me and everyone else is amazing. Every job I've had they give you some training your first I don't know maybe 2 weeks? After that you're on your own. You've never done that here. You've never left us on our own to just read your mind. If you see somewhere were weak you find a book or an article or even some words and you help us grow. It's been amazing how much I've picked up and I wish I could experience it for longer. I really do.

When I decided I wanted to write you this the mom and the protector in me kind of wanted to write cuss words at you for making [half the team] cry. Instead I decided to use my rational brain and I'm sure I'll thank myself for that later. Everyone cried because were not only losing a great mentor but a great person. It's a loss were going to feel for a very long time. I don't think some people will ever full get over it. You're a very caring and compassionate person along with just being consistent and that's something we've needed for so long and I'm so happy we got to experience it for as long as we did. I think your presence will be extremely missed and hopefully we can still excel without it. The one thing we have going for us is [my coworker] and I know of anyone can gracefully take over for you it's her. I've already told her she should just keep the job permanently.

Whatever opportunity you took I hope it's amazing for you and your family. I don't believe you made this decision lightly at all I do wish the outcome was different but I do understand. Whoever takes your spot permanently has big shoes to fill… literally… I really hope they're as kind as you. Many bosses don't take the time to do things like remember my first mother's day or my child's name. Its things like that, that really show the elevation you have above others and it's something I won't forget. I've never had a boss quite as spectacular and special as you are.

I know I've said thank you more times than you've probably wanted to hear but I can't help it. I know I essentially control my own career and destiny but you've given me the power to do so and that's invaluable. You've given me opportunities for growth and learning that I'm not sure I would have gotten anywhere else. You've given me knowledge and advice many people wouldn't bother with and I'll hold on to that always. It's something that really helped shape me. When people ask me hard questions or put me into tough situations I always think “how would Lovell advise me to handle this if I asked?” and that's really helped me. On the days when I'm being special and in my feelings I really think to myself that I need to get over it because that's not living up to the standard you helped me set for myself and as my mentor you deserve to see from me and I think that's going to stay in the back of my mind forever. You changed the way I think about things in such a great way. You beyond helped me take control of my career and life in such a positive way and I really can't thank you enough. Thank you so much for believing in me and pushing me when I needed it. Ill truly miss that along with your wisdom and insight. If it weren't for you pushing and guiding me I very well could be stuck at the hell hole they call [my old store] still.

Ill wrap this up or I could probably keep going for at least 10 pages and nobody needs that. So once again thank you from the bottom of my heart. Ill truly miss having your energy around. Nobody screams my name quite like you do so early in the morning. Your energy and spectacularness will really be missed and felt. I hope you and your family do well in Missouri and that your life goes well down there. Don't get bit by any poisonous snakes and please don't get a southern accent that would be weird. I hope your kids can adjust to the change well. You deserve the best in life. Please come back and visit us. We will gladly get you a day pass at any point and time and hopefully for everyone its often. Thank you for being you and inspiring me to change my life in the best way possible. It's something I can never thank you enough for and I hope you van continue doing the same thing for other people in your new job. Anyone who can learn from you is beyond lucky in my opinion. I wish we could have kept you for a while longer. Thank you for everything Lovell.

Ps.. im still not talking to you.

I realized I had way more than a boss. I had a leader, a friend, a mentor.

Former frontline team member, who called me Yoda

Read the full letter

Lovell a/k/a Yoda:

When I first started here at [the company], my first thought was “I really hope I don't have a jerk for a boss like I did at my last job.” From our very first few interactions, knowing I could come to you with literally anything, I realized I had way more than a boss. I had a leader, a friend, a mentor. In my short time here, I have learned so much more about myself, not just in a work setting, but in my personal life as well. From our talks and your podcasts to how you act and carry yourself on an everyday basis, has made me want to change who I am. I have never believed in myself as much as I do now and I have you to thank for that. I have never really known my worth until you made me realize that maybe I'm not as bad as I make myself think I am. ☺ Not many people are fortunate enough to work with one of the best leaders there is, but I got that chance. I couldn't have asked for someone better to come and work for and you are going to be deeply missed. Not just from myself, but everyone that works here. You have changed the lives of so many people and you go above and beyond to make sure people know that you actually care about them. Not just in a work setting but also in a personal setting as well. I'm extremely sad that you are leaving but I know you are off to bigger and better things. I know you will do AMAZING in your next endeavor. You have left a lasting impact on me and I will be forever grateful to you for everything you have taught me. Good luck with everything. I know you will be great!

yoda best!

From the clients I served

The results side of the same approach.

Lovell is a perceptive, thoughtful and decisive leader who takes time to assess situations and then recommends actions that are feasible and effective. He helped our City government get more from our staff than had been achieved in the prior 4 years, and he discovered efficiencies in a business that made it profitable. In addition to his effectiveness as a businessman, he is an intelligent, kind and understanding leader who focuses on people.

Bob BennettCivic Technology Leader and Author, Changing the World, One City at a Time

Lovell did a full value assessment of my restaurant, which we desperately needed after 12 years. He spent the time to assess all aspects of the business, and worked in a positive, thoughtful manner, while still giving you the feedback you need. I know that my current business model, and consequently my bottom line, would be in a much worse place today if not for his expertise. I would highly recommend him to any business looking for a strong leader.

Bill FickleOwner, Side Pockets Restaurant

I have had the absolute and distinct pleasure of working with Lovell Holloway for several years. His passion and compassion is contagious and inspires those that are fortunate enough to be in his circle of influence. He is a forward thinking leader who understands how to create and nurture a culture of loyalty, collaboration and utmost excellence!

Krista SmithSt. Joseph's College (IN)

Lovell is one of the most passionate and genuine leaders I've ever had the pleasure of working with. He takes the extra time to get to know individuals and nurtures those relationships to help the group work to its best ability. Lovell is authentic and inspires those around him.

Sarah Mathis, CVPExperiences Matter

From the partners beside me

Vendors and peers who saw it from across the table.

I work in sales and sell products to Lovell. We worked together to accomplish both of our companies' goals. He is also a great communicator. I have witnessed Lovell having many conversations with his staff and you can tell they are truly bought in to his passion. Lovell is a pleasure to be around, whether it's enjoying personal time together or working on projects together.

Matthew SgroiExperienced Sales and Business Manager

Lovell has been amazing to work with at TIAA Stadium. He always makes himself available and always has an answer when there is an issue. I know that I can count on him and his staff which makes the crazy job of being a vendor a lot easier knowing he has my back!

Debra MalinisCatering Director, Bono's and Pastiche Catering

Lovell is one of the best people I have been associated with in my 36 years in business. No project is too small or too large for him to tackle. His unbridled enthusiasm motivates everyone that is in his presence.

Donnie FehlOwner, D&D Retail Construction Co.

Enjoyed working with Lovell. He had an unbelievable work ethic and always looked for the best solution to any challenge. He is a strategic thinker who works hard to find efficiencies in every facet of the business. His staff looked up to him and he was an effective leader. Lovell will continue to do well no matter where his professional career takes him!

Danny CaudySenior Director, Tournament Business & Sponsor Relations

Named recommendations shared from LinkedIn, 2020. Titles as listed at the time.

Author · Keynote Speaker · Executive Consultant · Entrepreneur · Founder

Lovell

“Lovie” Holloway

See Potential. Be the One.

Great businesses are built through people. Great leaders never forget it.

Keynote Speaker Executive Consultant Author Founder, Blue Origin Holdings Founder, ARI Fusion
Career by Default poster

Mark Your Calendar

Book Release Date — November 11, 2026

What if the greatest untapped potential in your organization isn’t hidden in your strategy, technology, or financial projections — but in the people you haven’t truly learned to see?

That question sits at the heart of Lovell “Lovie” Holloway’s work and the philosophy that has guided more than 35 years of leadership, entrepreneurship, and personal transformation.

Lovie believes leadership is more than achieving financial results, executing strategies, or managing performance. It’s an extraordinary opportunity to recognize potential, develop human beings, create meaningful opportunities, and build environments where accountability, excellence, peace, and joy can coexist.

His conviction is rooted in something deeply personal: sometimes the person who appears least likely to succeed is the person whose potential simply hasn’t been recognized yet.

He knows because he was once that person.

Origins

The Man Behind the Mission

Long before Lovie became an executive, entrepreneur, consultant, or author, he was a kid growing up in circumstances that offered little evidence of the future he would eventually create.

Raised between Washington, D.C., and Salt Lake City, his childhood was shaped by poverty, family instability, and parents struggling with addiction. By fifteen, he had been expelled from three schools. His early circumstances suggested a future defined more by survival than possibility.

But along the way, people saw something in him that his circumstances didn’t reveal. They offered opportunities, encouragement, guidance, and sometimes the uncomfortable accountability necessary to help him discover what he was capable of becoming.

Those experiences shaped a belief that would eventually become central to his leadership philosophy: potential often exists long before there is evidence of it.

Lovie understands that talent doesn’t always arrive polished, confident, or professionally packaged. Sometimes it arrives exhausted, uncertain, frustrated, undereducated, or wearing the uniform of a job someone never intended to make a career.

He also understands that sometimes the person who needs someone to believe in them is sitting in the executive suite.

His life and leadership journey have taught him that while circumstances can influence where we begin, they don’t have to determine where we finish. And the people who recognize possibility in others can profoundly change the direction of a life.

For Lovie, this is not motivational theory. It’s personal history. It’s why his message is so simple.

See Potential. Be the One.

35+ Years of Leadership

From the Frontline to the Executive Suite

Lovie’s professional journey spans more than 35 years across small businesses, hospitality, food and beverage operations, stadiums, sports and entertainment venues, airports, transportation, logistics, microtransit, and large-scale operational environments.

From frontline operations to executive leadership, he has navigated businesses where financial performance, service excellence, workforce engagement, operational complexity, and human behavior intersect every day.

His career has placed him in environments where thousands of individual decisions shape the experiences of customers, employees, business partners, and entire communities. He understands the pressures facing an hourly employee trying to make ends meet and the executive responsible for delivering results across a complex organization.

That perspective gives Lovie an uncommon understanding of the relationship between the people performing the work and the leaders responsible for creating the conditions in which that work happens.

2023 · Kansas City International Airport

Serving as CEO and General Manager, Lovie led the opening of the highly localized Concessions and Logistics Program at the new Kansas City International Airport — part of the airport’s groundbreaking $1.5 billion terminal development, the largest infrastructure project in Kansas City history at that time.

The undertaking required coordination across concessions, logistics, staffing, vendor relationships, guest experience, and frontline execution. It brought together operational complexity, community partnerships, hospitality innovation, and the extraordinary responsibility of preparing teams to serve travelers in a new airport environment.

But the most consequential lessons weren’t found in the architectural plans, budgets, or operational schedules. They were found in the people.

Leading across small businesses, stadiums, airports, and other demanding environments reinforced something Lovie had witnessed throughout his career: strong business performance depends on prepared leaders, supported employees, clear systems, consistent communication, and cultures where people feel seen, developed, and valued.

He also learned that organizational excellence becomes extraordinarily difficult when leaders forget that every financial result, operational metric, and customer experience ultimately depends on human beings.

Great businesses are not built through strategy alone. They are built through people.

A Healthy Dose of Humor

Nobody Wants to Go to Work to Suck

Lovie has a way of introducing uncomfortable leadership conversations with a healthy dose of humor. One of his favorite observations is deceptively simple:

“Nobody wants to go to work to suck!”

Behind the laughter is a serious challenge to some of the assumptions organizations make about their employees.

Too often, leaders describe their workforce as unmotivated, disengaged, entitled, or unwilling to work without asking what those employees have experienced, what obstacles they’re navigating, or whether their organization has provided the clarity, support, and leadership necessary for success.

That doesn’t mean every employee is equally motivated, prepared, or committed. Personal accountability matters. Performance standards matter. Results matter.

But Lovie believes leaders must also examine the environments they’ve created before concluding that the people working within them are the problem.

What happens when a struggling employee is viewed as a person with undeveloped potential instead of an inconvenience to be managed? What becomes possible when leaders understand someone’s circumstances without allowing those circumstances to eliminate accountability? And how many talented people leave organizations because nobody took the time to recognize what they might become?

These are the questions Lovie invites executives, managers, and business owners to consider. His message isn’t that organizations should lower expectations or abandon financial discipline in pursuit of employee happiness. Quite the opposite.

He believes high expectations and genuine humanity belong in the same conversation.

The objective is not simply to make people feel better about coming to work. It’s to create the conditions in which they can do better work, build meaningful careers, strengthen their organizations, and experience greater fulfillment in their lives.

Because employees aren’t simply the labor required to execute a strategy. They’re human beings whose potential may be far greater than the position they currently occupy.

The ACC Principles

Accountability. Care. Commitment.

Lovie’s leadership philosophy is grounded in his ACC Principles: Accountability, Care, and Commitment. These principles reflect his belief that sustainable organizational performance requires both operational discipline and an authentic understanding of the people responsible for delivering results.

A

Accountability

Establishes expectations, responsibility, and ownership.

C

Care

Reminds leaders that the people behind those expectations have lives, aspirations, challenges, and capabilities worth understanding.

C

Commitment

Transforms both principles into consistent actions that create trust, strengthen culture, and support lasting results.

For Lovie, accountability without care risks becoming fear-based management. Care without accountability risks becoming well-intentioned leadership without meaningful performance. Commitment connects the two by demanding that leaders demonstrate their values through their actions.

Together, the ACC Principles challenge organizations to develop people rather than simply supervise them, strengthen emotional intelligence without sacrificing standards, and build cultures where employees understand both what is expected of them and why their contributions matter.

It’s a philosophy grounded in a straightforward conviction:

Stop managing people like problems. Start developing them like possibilities.

Blue Origin Holdings · ARI Fusion

Building Better Businesses and Exploring New Possibilities

As the founder of Blue Origin Holdings, Lovie works with business owners, executives, operators, and organizations across hospitality, aviation, healthcare, insurance, and other industries to improve operational execution, increase revenue, strengthen profitability, develop leadership capacity, elevate organizational culture, and improve workforce engagement.

His consulting work also helps leaders navigate the very human side of organizational change, recognizing that even the most sophisticated business strategies depend on people understanding, embracing, and executing them.

Lovie approaches consulting with the perspective of someone who has carried responsibility for financial outcomes, employees, customers, organizational performance, and complex operations. He understands that improving business results requires more than identifying what’s broken. It requires understanding why systems fail, why people disengage, why leadership behaviors persist, and how organizations can create more effective ways of working.

His consulting philosophy does not treat financial performance and employee development as competing priorities. Instead, it explores how operational excellence, leadership effectiveness, workforce engagement, and organizational culture influence one another.

Lovie is also the founder of ARI Fusion, an emerging technology venture combining augmented reality and artificial intelligence to transform how people discover, navigate, understand, and interact with physical environments. With potential applications across airports, stadiums, entertainment venues, universities, cities, retail environments, and other public spaces, ARI Fusion reflects his curiosity about the intersection of emerging technology and human experience.

Although his businesses operate in different industries, they share a common philosophical foundation: innovation, leadership, and operational excellence should ultimately improve the experiences of the human beings they serve.

Technology should expand human capability, not become an excuse to overlook humanity.

Releasing November 11, 2026

Career by Default: The Hidden Cost of Accidental Leadership

Career by Default brings together Lovie’s professional experience, personal adversity, philosophical curiosity, and observations about the changing relationship between employees, employers, and leadership.

The book explores what happens when people enter careers out of necessity, accept promotions without preparation, inherit outdated leadership practices, and spend years pursuing definitions of success they never consciously chose. It’s also an examination of the responsibility leaders have to understand the people whose work makes organizational success possible.

Drawing from the experiences of the working class, frontline employees, emerging managers, and senior executives, Lovie challenges assumptions about motivation, loyalty, resilience, workplace culture, personal identity, and professional fulfillment.

With candor, vulnerability, irreverent humor, and uncomfortable truths, he invites readers to question whether they’ve intentionally designed their lives and leadership philosophies or simply accepted the circumstances and expectations handed to them.

The book doesn’t promise that every reader will arrive at the same conclusion. Instead, it encourages reflection, personal accountability, and a willingness to act on what that reflection reveals.

This isn’t a guidebook. It’s a mirror.

And sometimes the most important thing a mirror can reveal isn’t who we’ve become, but who we still have the possibility of becoming.

Keynotes

Keynotes That Challenge, Connect, and Inspire

As a keynote speaker, Lovie brings decades of executive experience together with personal storytelling, operational wisdom, philosophical curiosity, and an irreverent sense of humor.

He challenges executives, business owners, managers, emerging leaders, and industry professionals to reconsider the assumptions they make about the people they lead and the cultures they create. His presentations explore the human consequences of accidental leadership, the generational evolution of the workforce, the relationship between accountability and empathy, and the importance of developing environments where performance and humanity coexist.

Rather than simply telling audiences how to become better managers, Lovie invites them to examine who they are as leaders, how their experiences have shaped their beliefs, and what opportunities they may be missing because they’ve stopped seeing the potential in the people around them.

His message resonates with an increasingly important reality: organizations are navigating technological disruption, changing workforce expectations, economic pressures, and new definitions of professional success. Yet the responsibility to understand, develop, and inspire human beings remains fundamental to effective leadership.

Lovie believes the best keynote doesn’t simply leave an audience motivated for an afternoon. It changes what someone notices, questions, and chooses to do the next time they encounter another human being. He wants leaders to return to their organizations and look differently at the employee they’ve underestimated, the manager they’ve failed to develop, the emerging talent they haven’t recognized, and perhaps even the person they’ve become themselves.

Because sometimes leadership transformation begins with a surprisingly simple realization:

The person standing in front of you may be capable of far more than the performance you’re seeing today.

And sometimes the most meaningful leadership decision is choosing to be the person who helps them discover it.

Community

Leadership Beyond the Boardroom

Lovie’s commitment to developing human potential extends well beyond his professional responsibilities.

He has proudly served on the boards of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City, the Heartland Black Chamber of Commerce, SevenDays®, the Kansas City Sports Commission, and the Kansas City International Airport Community Improvement District.

Board Service & Community Leadership

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kansas City ↗

Heartland Black Chamber of Commerce

SevenDays® — Kindness in Kansas City ↗

Kansas City Sports Commission

KCI Airport Community Improvement District

His involvement reflects a belief that meaningful service requires more than financial contributions, professional recognition, or good intentions. It requires participation, personal investment, and a willingness to help create opportunities for people and communities.

Lovie believes participative service is one of the most meaningful ways to pay it forward. The opportunities we receive carry with them the responsibility to help create opportunities for the generations that follow.

He also understands that one caring adult, one meaningful conversation, one professional opportunity, or one person willing to recognize potential can alter the trajectory of another human being’s life. That conviction connects his community service to his work as an author, consultant, and keynote speaker.

It’s also why “See Potential. Be the One.” is more than a leadership message. It’s a personal responsibility.

Husband · Father · Mentor

From Default to Design

For all his professional accomplishments, Lovie takes greatest pride in being a husband, father, lovingly kind mentor, and unapologetic student of human behavior.

His signature Nefarious Ramblings blend esoteric satire, uncomfortable truths, philosophical curiosity, and observations about the magnificent absurdity of being human. Through those reflections, he challenges conventional thinking while acknowledging that personal growth is rarely neat, comfortable, or particularly dignified.

Lovie believes that success should not require sacrificing the humanity, relationships, peace, and joy that make life meaningful. He also believes that great leadership is not measured exclusively by financial performance, professional titles, or organizational achievements, but by the people whose lives and possibilities are improved because someone cared enough to lead differently.

He lives in the Kansas City area, where he continues to build businesses, develop ideas, and share stories that move people from survival to purpose, from management to leadership, from accidental success to intentional impact, and from default to design, while helping leaders find peace and joy in serving others.

His mission is to keep learning, pay it forward, and remind people that potential is not always obvious, opportunity is not always equally distributed, and leadership offers each of us the chance to make a meaningful difference in someone else’s life.

See Potential. Be the One.

From Default to Design

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Intellectual Property · Speaking · Consulting

This Isn’t Just a Book.
It’s a Brand.

Six frameworks. One complete leadership ecosystem. Built from the ground up by someone who has lived every level of it — from the front line to the boardroom.

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“Taken together, these six concepts form a complete leadership ecosystem — ready for your boardroom, your keynote stage, your next offsite.”

Every framework below has been road-tested across airports, stadiums, restaurant chains, and Fortune 500 operations. They are tools — sharp, practical, and built for leaders who are done playing it safe.

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Personal Wellbeing Tool

The Happiness Circle

Most leaders chase productivity metrics while ignoring the one variable that drives everything else — the emotional state of their people. The Happiness Circle maps the intersection of joy, purpose, and energy in your workforce.

“You cannot build a thriving culture on top of an unhappy team. Fix the circle first.”

Keynote Ready
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Cultural Diagnostic

The Culture Thermometer

Every culture runs at a temperature — and most leaders don’t know theirs until it’s boiling over. The Culture Thermometer gives you a real-time read on engagement, trust, and psychological safety. Not a survey. A conversation tool with teeth.

“Your culture isn’t what you say it is. It’s what the thermometer reads at 6am on a Monday.”

Consulting Framework
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Operational Framework

The ACC Framework

Accountability. Care. Commitment. The three pillars every high-performing team shares — and the three things most organizations pay lip service to without ever operationalizing. ACC turns abstract values into daily, measurable behaviors.

“If your team can’t describe your expectations in one sentence, you don’t have clarity — you have hope.”

Seminar Ready
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Cultural Philosophy

A Culture of YES

The most expensive word in your organization isn’t a salary line — it’s “no.” A Culture of YES means building an environment where ideas are welcomed, risk is respected, and people feel safe enough to bring their whole capacity to work.

“The quietest person in your room might be holding the idea that saves your company. Build a culture that lets them speak.”

Keynote Ready
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Progression Model

Good → Better → Best

Most organizations are stuck at Good — functional, predictable, survivable. Better is where growth happens. Best is where legacies are built. This three-step model gives leaders a clear map for moving from compliance to purpose to excellence.

Good

Functional

Better

Growing

Best

Legendary

Seminar Ready
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Leadership Ethos

Give All the Fucks

In a world of quiet quitting and disengaged managers, this is the antidote. Give All the Fucks is about radical intentionality — showing up fully, leading loudly, and refusing to let your people feel invisible. This is the ethos that ties every other framework together.

“You are on ‘All Fucks Given Boulevard’ — and the view from here is entirely different.”

The Signature Framework

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Nefarious Ramblings

Thoughts shared along the way — from writing the book to launch night and beyond.

New Ramblings every Wednesday · 3:33 p.m.

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